Self Respect,Ladies

It utterly bugs me when some girls at my school particularly wear a lot of makeup every single day. It's not like they're going to a special event. They probably even put on makeup when they're only just going to the grocery store. My point is,these girls get called pretty and beautiful by others all the time. But what about the natural girls? The girls who are natural will often feel inadequate and might also go into a low self esteem mode when they look at those other girls who are unrealistically pretty. They might create high expectations for themselves to be that attractive but what these natural girls don't realise is that they look past the fact these 'unrealistically pretty' girls are just wearing plenty of makeup (In which case can hide many flaws)-who knows what they look without it?

It's the same thing for many women magazine covers. Usually the women on the covers are of course wearing makeup or have been airbrushed and sadly a few of their features have been edited through technology photo-shopping. Young women will look at these covers and feel not so beautiful anymore. 

Okay,I realise some of those girls who in which wear a lot of makeup all the time may also be the ones with low self esteem issues. Wearing makeup isn't bad at all,it just needs to be worn in moderation because makeup hides what you actually look like and people will grow use to you looking a certain way which isn't the real you. And if you're planning to wear makeup  to normal daily events,it's alright but make sure you don't put too much on to the point of becoming a cake face. Out of all makeup themes,I prefer the natural look whenever I wear makeup...Which is pretty much rarely. 

Another thing that bothers me is when I see girls around my age or even younger wearing inappropriate outfits. Since when did they sell undies in denim? It also extremely annoys me when some girls at my school wear a low cut top exposing their breasts  so much that you almost think there will be a nipple slip occurring. What's worse is when they wear really short shorts that are bloody too short-they shouldn't even be considered shorts but just plain knickers. 

These girls who wear low cut tops and denim undies prance around casually and when suddenly a guy stares at their breasts these girls act so surprised and completely angry that a guy noticed their breasts even though they're basically hanging out,that you'd be blind not to notice them yourself.  

Self respect is important. If you don't respect yourself...How can you honestly expect others to respect you too?

My advice is that you should stick by this motto: Stay classy,Not trashy.

I Don't Usually Take Jokes Seriously...
But Sometimes We All Have a Limit

Do you know that feeling you get when someone makes a joke about you? A joke maybe based on your appearance,personality,skills,etc. I'm usually that person who doesn't get offended by jokes. But there's this one thing that can emotionally touch you even though you're not an emotional person. There's one thing that can anger you severely even though you might be a calm person. There's one thing that can make you happy and positive even though you might be a moody or grumpy person. I'm talking about the fact it doesn't matter if you're sensitive or not,there is one thing out there that can make you cry, feel moody or make you feel anything really...when it is said to you or said about you. There's this girl who calls me names,I know she's only trying to be funny,which I don't mind at all because I  actually also find it hilarious when she does her usual jokes about me and others. When I say 'calls me names,' I mean she's just making simple nicknames for me, in which makes me giggle,she doesn't mean any harm by doing this at all. But sometimes she can go too far with her jokes,sometimes she does this inappropriate joke that really does hurt me deep inside but I just try to be strong and laugh along with her. I try acting happy. She's a nice person. The terrible thing is that she's saying something hurtful to me without realising it,which I don't blame her for. Sometimes we do things we don't realise are mean or hurtful to people-even nice person people do it too. The reason I won't tell her of how I feel about it all, is because then she'd know my weaknesses and at some point could use them against me. Knowing that someone out there knows your weaknesses, can scare you. It's even more dramatic,when they know your weaknesses but you don't know theirs. I don't trust too easily due to my past. At the moment,I'm still trying to get to know her. 

THE UNPOPULAR VERDICT

Very often I come across many teen or high school films with lots of cliche's and stereotypes. The popular guy always ends up with the less noticed girl in the end of these films. It's never really a surprise when we see this happen in movies since lots of movies are like that. In reality,it's a completely different scenario. The pretty popular girl gets the guy while the quiet girl doesn't get noticed at all. But trust me; the quiet,awkward,smart or nice girls are the most interesting ones. I think every type of guy should give them a chance or try,you never know what you will discover. You will most likely find something amazing about them if you try to get to know them. I'm not only going to put the subject matter on girls but also guys. I see so many girls who go out with jerks and when they're over them,the next week they date a different guy whose actually very similar to the other jerk they dated just before and this pattern continues on and on.And these girls then ramble,argue and whine about how every guy is a prude or jerk and yet these girls have only ever dated one type of genre or personality theme when it came to relationships. They never really gave the sweet or nerdy guys a chance at all. These type of guys tend to grow up to be successful or even attractive. Try to get to know them is all I ask. If they don't interest you after a while of  getting to know them,that's fine because at least you tried. I'm sick of people going for sluts and jerks only (sorry..I just had to say that word).